Positive affect of porn on relationships

Porn is a very highly discussed topic and people have very strong views and opinions about porn itself.  A very common question that happens to occur with porn is whether or not it affects relationships.  Some people believe that it does while others believe it does not.  There are points to back up both views but personally I believe porn can be perfectly fine with relationships and not affect them at all. Pornography has been around since the history of time.  A lot of people say that it destroys relationships by giving guys unrealistic expectation of girls.  On Oprah, Rabbi Shmuley says that porn is a form of sexism and that it is a form of a drug.  First off, porn is not a form of sexism.  Girls chose to become porn stars and that is their choice.  There are the same opportunities for guys as well, porn just happens to appeal to men more so than women and that is why it is labeled as a form of sexism.  Also, porn is viewed as a drug which is also not true.  Drugs alter the state of your mind.  Porn does not.  Yes people can become addicted to porn, but people can become addicted to chewing gum, but it doesn’t make gum a drug.  In Men’s Health it actually states that porn can help your marriage by keeping things exciting.  If both watch it together it can be very useful. Porn is always frowned upon in society, but personally I think it’s great.  It can be called a drug, but in the long run it actually can help when used correctly.  Everyone has their own opinion but I personally think that porn does not affect relationships.